:: tiPs Cari jOdOh ::

“Jodoh di tangan Allah dan manusia wajib berikhtiar mencari dan memilihnya sesuai dengan ketentuan yang ditentukan Allah”

Well, utk korang pastikan that si Dia adalah pasangan terbaik dan paling tepat bagi korang. Berikut beberapa petanda yang wajib/optional ada dalam hubungan korang berdua...
renung2kan ya kawan2...

Petanda 1

Salah satu kriteria yang menentukan cocok @ tidak si Dia itu jodoh korang adalah kemampuannya bersikap santai di depan korang. Cuba sekarang perhatikan, apakah gerak gerinya, caranya berpakaian (bukan sedang memakai pakaian OK, strictly NO NO NO..akak x suka tau...), gaya rambutnya, caranya berbicara serta tertawanya, macamana? Adakah setiap ucapannya selalu nampak spontan dan tidak dibuat-buat? Jika tidak, (oppsss sorry..hipokritttt...nexttttt) kemungkinan besar dia bukan jodoh korang.

Petanda 2
Rahsia sepasang kekasih agar dapat memiliki jangkamasa hubungan yang panjang adalah adanya saling bertolak ansur (hah...jgn hang dok joreng sgt..akak x per, akak dh kawin...eh...blh gitu?? ahaks....). korang dan si dia selalu saling membantu, pekerjaan kecil atau besar. Paling penting adalah korang berdua selalu menikmati segala aspek kehidupan secara bersama-sama (ada batasan ya..). Dan semuanya terasa amat menyenangkan meskipun tanpa harus melibatkan orang lain. Hah!!!, korang dah ada rasa mcm tu x? Jika ya, selamat..... bererti ada harapan bahwa dia adalah calon pendamping hidup korang! (so, dh ada ke dlm kotak fikiran korang skrg siapa si Dia?? ngeh2)...

Petanda 3
Adanya contact batin (weiii korang jgn luCah OK!!!)... a.k.a perasaan yg membuat hati korang berdua selalu saling tahu (insticnt la...) & bila korang atau si dia boleh saling membaca fikiran dan menduga reaksi serta perasaan satu sama lain pada situasi tertentu... Selamat jugak! Mungkin sebenarnya dialah belahan jiwa korang yang tersimpan...hehehhehe...huda dh ada lah tu, tersengeh2 baca..oppsss

Petanda 4
Dia selalu ada untuk korang dalam situasi apapun (SETUJU!!!!!)...... Dan dia selalu cepat memahami gelora dalam hati korang... sihat/sakit, suka dan duka. Percayalah pasangan yang ada jodoh pasti tak takut mengalami pasang surut saat bersama (kalau x, kira clash terus laaa, x der nak rujuk2 lg..understand...dont waste ur time)...

Sekarang, ingat-ingat kembali. Apakah dia orang pertama yang datang memberi bantuan tatkala korang dirundung musibah? hmmmmm..ada x?? ada x??...
Dia selalu paham saat PMS korang datang menyerang? Dia cepat-cepat datang dan mencarikan ubat bila mengetahui korang sakit?
Jika ya, tak salah lagi. Dialah
orangnya...(si ita tgh pk lg tu...alaaaaa..aku tahu laaaaa..bayang x muncul lg kan kan...hehe)

Petanda 5 (bg aku Option jer nih, bg korg x tau la)
Bersamanya bisa membuat perasaan korang menjadi santai, tenang & tanpa perasaan tertekan.(ikut pengalaman kadang2 ada gak weii rasa tertekan ...so, petanda 5 ni kira Option laaa...hehe)
Berjam-jam bersamanya, setiap waktu dan setiap hari membuat korang merasa tidak bosan langsung ( tp kalau aku lama2 pon bosan gaks..).. Ini sebagai petanda bahawa korang berdua kelak akan saling terikat.

Petanda 6
Bila korang merasa rahsia korang lebih selamat ditangannya daripada di tangan sahabat-sahabat korang @ korang merasa sudah tak blh la lagi menyimpan rahsia apapun darinya, maka berbahagialah! Kerana ini bererti pasangan sejati telah korang temui! yeahhh

Petanda 7
Dia tak terlalu peduli dengan masa lalu keluarga korang, dia tak peduli dengan masa lalu korang saat bersama kekasih terdahulu. Dia juga tak malu-malu menceritakan masa lalunya.
Hah, kalau begitu ini dh confirm2 si dia sudah bersedia menerima korang apa adanya..so, dh ada? lalalallalala...

bak kata fariza laa, nk carik teman hidup, tak mau amik yg praktikkan prinsip "ToUCh & gO" tp amik La yg tekankan konsep "CaSH & caRRy"...ahakksss......pahammmm!!!

So to all ma' beLoved sisTa...aLL the beSt ya.....

~ Sumber dari : http://erikalone.blogspot.com~

:: Avoid Making This Mistake When He's Distant ::

have you ever just sensed that something was off with your man, but you didn't know what?

Of course... he wouldn't talk to you about it or tell you. He was just quiet and withdrawn.

Trying to figure out what your man is thinking can be a dangerous game.

Not only does trying to figure him out often end up pushing your man away on accident, it usually drives you a little nuts.

Which only makes things worse.

Stop wondering and worrying when you don't have to anymore. It's time you got to the heart of the matter and stopped going in circles with men and relationships.

>>>> Example :-

Ms She have been having a long distance relationship with a man with whom the chemistry and the connection was amazing from the start. They have been seeing each other for almost 4 months now. They fell in love and he has confessed it so to her. He also has mentioned to her that he feels Ms She is his soul mate.

He travels around the world working for an oil company and during his last trip which has taken a month things are changing. He does not call Ms She as often, does not write emails to her as often and blames it on the time difference and mood differences and being stressed and busy. All started to get worse when in her frustrations She started feeling anxiety and reacting by also not calling him as often and being cold and distant.

Before She started acting this way She did ask why he was not calling and communicated that expectation with him. She think he is pulling away and so not
know what to do. She is in love with him and do not know if She should bother him by calling or She should just stand back and wait for him to make his move
when ready. He was very attentive and used to call a lot more before even when he was traveling.

Did She act needy? Is there hope? What should She do?

>>>>So, Here goes the Response

It is possible for a man to sense what you're calling "needy" without you even saying anything.

And...

It's possible that even though your normal feelings of wondering what's going on aren't wrong or needy in an unhealthy way... your man might FEEL like you're being too needy.

The result - he's not showing you the same level of interest and attraction not because you did something wrong, but because of how he is FEELING.

So what's the difference between what is actually needy, and what a man thinks is needy and unattractive?

It's the way you communicate how you're feeling to him. You might even think of this as the "energy" that you're bringing to him and your relationship.

SO STOP WHAT YOU'RE DOING RIGHT NOW !!!

Stop your mind, stop your busy thoughts, and stop trying to "figure everything out."

You're on the brink of becoming your own worst enemy here.

Why?

Because you've got a growing case of what so call the "over-analyzing blues."

This is when you know there's something going on with your man that you don't get.

And since you don't know what it is, and you're feeling a bit uncertain about things, something bad starts to happen -

Your mind starts to fill in the blanks of each little thing he does and says with some kind of negative or fearful thought (even if there's nothing really wrong).

And this creates a negative feedback loop where-

The more you feel uncertain and unnerved by not knowing what's going on...

The more things feel weird between you...

And thus the worse you feel...

And then the more negative stuff about him and his actions you think and worry about...

And so the more he acts strangely or more distant around you.

The cycle feeds itself and down and down you go.

STOP THE MADNESS!

clear your mind of all your thoughts about him.

He's likely not going to stand there with open arms waiting to hear and understand how you feel, and explain himself.

Men get that magic "she's the one" feeling not when they feel like they have to dig into the little things to make your relationship work but when it feels EASY.

That's why it's time you stopped wondering what in the world is going on with men, and stopped feeling stuck or frustrated as the same "issues" keep coming up with them.

P/S - he is lucky to have met you....

:: prOmiSe ::

Promises are like babies: easy to make, hard to deliver...

Half the promises people say were never kept, were never made. ~Edgar Watson Howe

Promise only what you can deliver. Then deliver more than you promise.

p/s : dO nOt make prOmise when u tend to break iT.... :-(

:: BeZa anTaRa CinTa, SayanG, minaT & suKa ::

Cinta

~ Kita memang mengharapkan dia menjadi milik kita....(yess i do..hehe) Segala apa yang kita buat, kalau buleh nak dia tahu.. dan kita sebuleh mungkin tak nak sakitkan hati dia...(errr mcm ada jer..ampun sayangggg). kita akan sentiasa berfikir tentang dirinya. (dalam erti lain : cinta di tujukan kepada seseorang yg kita selalu ingat dan mimpi (lepas kawin...mimpi tu agak kureng...hehe).. Tanpanya kita akan rasa sunyi (indeed) dan kita cintakan sepenuh jiwa dengan hati yg ikhlas kepadanya walaupun dia buat tak tau je...haha..
Sayang
~ Kita memerlukan dia di masa kita mahukan seseorang untuk berkongsi rahsia dan kisah duka kita. selalunya kita akan sayangkan seseorang yang menjadi TELINGA kepada masalah kita. (dalam erti lain : sayang di tujukan kepada seseorang yang boleh membuangkan masa dia untuk mendengar dan memeningkan kepalanya dgn masalah kita dan kita jugak boleh menyakitkan hati dia kerana kita bukannya cinta kepadanya)

Suka
~ Kita sukakan dia kerana dia kelakar. Dia happy-go-lucky. Bila bersama dengan dia, kita rasa nak tergelak sampai nak pecah perut. Tapi, kita taklah rindu sangat kat dia bila tak berjumpa seminggu…(dalam erti lain : suka di tujukan kepada seseorang yang boleh menjadi pelawak kepada kita. Kita akan suruh dia diam sekirangnya ulu perut kita dah nak pecah…)

Minat
~ Apa sesuatu pada dirinya yang menarik kita untuk mendekatinya.(dalam erti lain : minat ditujukan kepada seseorang yang ada sifat, peribadi atau barang yang kita mahukan… )


Tetapi kita kena ingat bahawa tanpa minat , suka dan sayang kita tidak akan CINTA pada seseorang itu…

saya dH juMPa...hOw aBouT yOu???

:: GenG KaRaOkE ::

SemenJak dua MenJak ni deMaM kaRaOke meLanDa...
ini semua gara2 jiwa kacau ...ditambah dengan pengaruh rakan seBaya..
(ahaks...salahkan member laks)
Every Saturday dH conFirm2 kat kaRaOke aka pUSat Latihan nyanyian @ sunway pyramiD....hehehe...
makLum la...duLu x dak AF AF, la ni kalau nak maSuk AF conFirm "AFUNDI KELUAR" ...soRe agak sumBang tp kalau diberi latihan yg beTul...ada harapan x kena Boooo ms menyanyi di kenduri2 kawin sepupu2 nnti...hahaha

weLL, ant manusia2 yg selalu menghabiskan ms menemani ku berkaraOke x lain x bukan....

En. Suami laaaa....lagu favourite, Lamunan Terhenti. Sore tu leh tahan lah sedap....tp syg, kadang2 pitching high nots tu lari...so, kena berlatih lg k...hehe

si cilik allysa...yg setia menemani iBu berlatih menyanyi...yeahhh...
i lap u lahhh...muah muah muah...

hah!!! yg ni pulak...hOt mommy OK...beautiful as always
sore tu blh tahan laaa...tp, dia ada lagu yg diharamkan nyanyi ketika ber karok which is " i will survive"...hehehe, cian dia x leh nyanyi lagu tu pasai apa tah...hanya dia jer yg tahu...

ni pulak...mrS gorjes,...bLh la nk pggl erema ke, sarah raisuddin ka...misha omar pon bisaaaa sore mantap & memukau...kira terpana lah kalau dgr dia nyanyi...sedappp weiii

ini merpati 2 sejoLi...
soRg richard mark...sorg wann/uji rashid...cinta antara benua...hahaha...layannnn

definitely me & my beloved sista...layan jugak karok pompuan ni...lagu yg diminati >>> KESEMUANYA...selagi pegang mic...nyanyi nyanyi & nyanyi...

well, this is thu...sore terbaik bila nyanyi lagu wann >> Bosanovva...huh!!!...wa suspect lu laaaa

ellyana in the making...

yg dok berpeluk sakan ngan aku ni (sessi bodeks k), again ms fariza/kak uji...
layan lagu2 lama jer...
beb, lagu 'semakin hari, semakin syg' tu lu nyanyi mmg dahsyat laaa...hahahahaha

ant geng karok ku....again uji rashid/ella/KD ...wakakakkaa....x hingat nyer gelaran...

exclude yg baju maroon tu...dia geng diet jer...bukan geng karaoke..hahaha...
ampunnn mid >>> larikkkkkk

ini huda yg sweeetttt...i pggl u rossa lahh....>>ku menangissssssssss.....
(lantang seh sore u...i likeee)si kecil molek....celine dion (CD) ya...u jump i stay...layannn

sebelum melalak..kena mkn dulu, baru ada energy...
aku bersama2 ella & wakey (AF9) OK!!!!

amboiii ella...kat kedai mkn pon mood sudah mariiii..

ZZ & uji rashid...hehehhe..
lagu terbaik ZZ setakat ni >>> Madah Berhelah
lagu terbaik kak uji >>> errrr......tiada...opppss

fairus >>> songs, "Cinta Di Akhir Garisan"...part yg tarik ala2 mariah carrey tu...serah kat dia ...haha

ella & wakey (AF9)

fyi, penyanyi terbaik lelaki yg belum ada album yg pernh ku dgr...ialah WAKEY....meruntun jiwa OK bila ku dgr sore mu...si fariza lg x tahan....sentap smp ke hati...syahduuuuu..
so uolllssss, AF9, VOTE 50, AFUNDI WAKEY

lasT but noT least....here we gO...
hehehe...korang mmG sPorTinG...muah2

KORANGSsss....SABTU NI JGN LUPA....WA SUDaH bOOkinG

(p/s : nama2 gelaran diatas adalah gelaran semata2....harap maklum)

:: tOy sTOry 3 ::

awesome!!! 9/10...waTch iT!!!

Woody and Buzz and the rest of the toys had to accept the fact that their owner, Andy, is a big boy now~ Andy was preparing to leave for college.... leaving his toys in their uncertain future.

Being a big boy unable him to play with his toys, he is unable to decide whether to keep his toys in the attic in his house or donate them to a daycare, SunnySide.

Due to "unforeseen circumstances"~ Woody, Buzz and the rest happen to be donated to the daycare SunnySide.
The gang thought SunnySide might be a nice place to stay and get to be play by kids everyday,
But, apparently there is a "Dark Side" of that place~

Want to know more go watch it!...heheheh...

Personal preference :~
- TouChing beb...the lasT part b4 enDing...mS wOOdy & the Gang berpegangan tangan seBeLum diLupuskan tu..huhu...menanGis aku soRg2 siTU...huhu
~ wOOdy : the masTerminD...college bOy...
~ bUzz : Love his *Spoiler*Spanish*Spoiler* mode! hahahahaha!
mr & mrS pOtaTo : funny couPles
~ Barbie and Ken : cUpid...jiwanG OK...hehe
~ LoTSo : Evil!!! and he smells like strawberrys..ahaks
~ biG babY : mama...mama..cian dierrr
& many mOres......gi Lah tGk....sesuwei banGat fOr anak2...

mOraL oF the sToris >> sTay toGetHer, uNiTe as a team...Love eaCh oTher...syahduuu nyaaa

aLLySa Loves iT tOO & sO dO mOm!!!

:: MaNuSia LiDaH berCaBanG ::

No No Nooo...i x suKa taU!!! keJadian berLaku pd pukul 4ptg - 6ptg...

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dURinG direcTors meeTing....mOst of the aGenDa, ceramah ari jumaaT fRom mR. cHairman...hahaha layan kan jer la..Org tua lah katakan
DirectOr ku yG dua OrG Lg tu pOn....anGGuk2 GeLeng2..hehhe...Lucu pOn ada..
tP, ni cHek nak ciTer paSaL manuSia yg Lidah nya bercaBang...huh!!! benCi tau...cakaP mCm cinGai
Dh La bg insTrucTion x tepat, biLa kita lost the cUstomer, dia salahkan kita lak...yg mr cHairman tanpa uSul periksa terus ckp staff Zzzzzzzz...that is SOooooo nOt trueee OK!!!

saya aDalah saksi pd kejadian tersebut....DeLay bukan dr pihak staff. immediately HOO terima suraT termination dr cusTomer, dia terus forward to branch yg berkaitan. foLLow the prOcedure OK. process uTk terminaTion bukan forward to HQ!!! haraP makLum...

buT iF you aka Ms. cinGai dh buat arrangement wiTh HQ, then you musT at leasT emaiL HOO regardinG the matters so that the application run smooThLy & go to the riTe expRess cHanneL.
....suDDenly this week, biLa agent marah2 application x approve, u ckp HOO & staff puLak x buaT kje...what the heLL?????

sunGGuh aku x faHam peranGai pompuan ni...saLahkan org Lain demi menyeLamatkan diri sendiri...sadisss seH...

mintak amPUn mintak maap...jauhKan Lah aku dr oRg yg Lidah berCabang mCm ni...kje x bErkat tau....

so, mS. cinGai, aLL the beSt to yOu...kaLau HOO resign, Senior Manager, Head of HR/Adm & ChanneL pon akan resign...so do Ops exec & yG seanGkaTan dGnya...buatLah kje sOrg2 or yG lebih aFdaL...ko je Lah yg resiGned...nGeh2..

renunG-renungkan.....

:: aDaM ::

Salam to all my frens....

Juz came back from one of my best fren house merangkap jiran cubicle ku ketika ditempat kje, Azuraini...she's now on maternity leave. Cik puan kita selamat melahirkan sorg bayi comel pada Sabtu lepas 12/6/2010 & baby diberi nama ADAM.
I was surprise actually sbb ADAM dilahirkan thru C-section. Cik puan kita dh ready mental & fizikal utk deliver baby naturally tp terkejut bila doc infomed tht due to her HBP, diorg terpaksa kuarkan baby sbb after induced pon, bukaan mommy x cukup utk deliver naturally.
So, now, we do share the same birth story cuma ADAM dh cukup 9mth & weighed 3.2kg.

He definitely AdoRaBLe like mOmmy....

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Sedap dia ZzzzZzz...tak sedar aunty & kakak allysa dtg. Opah nyer ckp, perut dh kenyang tu yg lena. B4 this dh 2mlm dia menangis jer & suara kuat laks tu....heheh...biasa la tu baby...
ADAM good boy ya..jaga mommy k...jgn nangis banyak2..mommy tensen nnti, cian mommy baru baik demam...
To dearie mommy...take care sis....we loves u...&

WELCOME TO THE CLUB!!!!

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