20 February 2009

Why It's So Hard To Find A Good Man? hmmm

Going through this week, 1 Q came across my mind......Why It's So Hard To Find A Good Man? hmmmmm...

Well, if you were single, you've probably been wondering:

"Where are all the good men?"

Now... if you've been in bad a relationship, and now you're single or feeling stuck, you might be thinking:

"What changed? He used to be so loving and affectionate, and now things feel almost dead between us and he's always distant."

Do you know the biggest mistake most women trying to save their relationship make when it ends up in this bad place?

It's giving your man an ULTIMATUM ~ Christian Carter ~

If you've ever considered giving your guy an "ultimatum" about getting serious or taking things to the "next level" in your relationship, there's something you need to know.

Men don't respond to deadlines, ultimatums or "all or nothing" demands when it comes to making a real long-term commitment to a woman.

What more, making these kinds of demands or pleas often brings out THE WORST in a man.

It causes a man to withdraw, act distant, get angry and irritated with you, and start questioning whether he should be with you at all.

I know that it can be a frustrating to wonder how in the world you're ever going to get what YOU want and need from a relationship...

When your man just seems to be content to carry on a lifeless and disconnected relationship with no real communication in it.

Don't let this keep happening to you.

Don't you finally deserve the kind of relationship that serves as a source of comfort and support
for you?

Instead of a relationship that only ends up making you feel less secure and loved?

You've got to know how COMMITMENT works for a man, and why a man will want to commit in the first place.

Or else...

You're going to keep ending up in relationships where you're the only one trying to hold the
relationship together.

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