There certain things you believe about men and relationships that can actually be HURTING your chances at real and lasting love?
Agree with any of these statements about men????
- Men like a challenge. They like the chase.
If you're too "easy" or approachable, they'll get
bored or lose interest.
- Men are dominant in relationships and
women therefore are unable to express themselves.
- Men cheat and are incapable of being monogamous.
- Men would secretly love to date and sleep
with different women the rest of their lives
rather than just have to stay with one serious,
committed relationship.
- Men just want to have fun and "freedom" and no
responsibility.
TRUTH #1: Men Don't Need To Chase
It's been said many times by many people that men need to be made to chase a woman in order to want her and commit wholeheartedly.
Not true.
In fact, this is plain wrong.
Rather than wanting to "chase" a woman, men are humans first.
Which means...
They want and need to feel a deep, emotional level of attraction for a woman if they are going to be moved to want bigger and better things with you in their life.
That everyday "Physical Attraction" a man can feel for any cute woman who walks by is not enough, and will never be enough to make him want something more than a casual fling.
Men can and will want to get close to you even if they just feel this Physical Attraction for you - and you'll likely have a hard time figuring out if they are or aren't feeling that deeper and more intense and lasting Emotional Attraction.
TRUTH #2: Men Feel Emotions Just Like Women
Believe it not, men are pretty sensitive.
It's just how they handle what they feel that makes them hard to connect with about it, and hard to understand -
Unless you know what's going on with how men handle these things in the first place.
Men have a hard time dealing with strong emotions from women. One of the things men often say to women when there's a conflict or tension in the relationship is, "why are you being so dramatic?"
Annoying, right?
TRUTH #3: Men Want Relationships
Men want to be in a relationship, and they have a strong desire to feel recognized as a great partner by their women.
Man enjoys being in committed, loving relationships as much as a woman does.
AS LONG AS IT DOESN'T FEEL HARD TO HIM.
When you show a man that you trust him to be a good partner to you, you will actually
inspire him and trigger his devotion and attraction for you.
17 February 2009
3 Truths About Men You Won't Believe
Posted by aSRa at 12:19 AM
Labels: LOVE : INFO / TIPS / TRICK
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