Tired Of Men Who Freak Out?

Have you ever had a man freak out on you for no good reason after a few great dates?

What's wrong with men?

Just when things start to get real he suddenly becomes distant and tells you "I'm not ready for a relationship."

Then it's time you took control of your love life and did something POSITIVE and PRO-ACTIVE.


Get Him Back - Is It Too Late?

There's a funny thing that happens to us in life...

It's that any time you develop a new AWARENESS and you start seeing your behavior and interactions in a new light... at first you often feel like kicking yourself.

But getting down on yourself, feeling overly frustrated and hopeless, and letting the lack of CONTROL you have in your new situation doesn't help.

Here's the reality if you've recognized that you've been making some of the mistakes I talk about...

It's NEVER TOO LATE.

Here's why:

The man you were dating liked you and was attracted to you for some reason.

And as much as it might seem like his feelings have changed forever towards you,
there's something you should realize-

A man's FEELINGS can CHANGE VERY QUICKLY, whether you want them to or not.

And you know this from past experience.

Now... most women don't handle this reality about men, dating, and relationships very well at all.

In fact, lots of women let this completely freak them out and take over their emotions and how they act and talk.

What's behind all this is FEAR.

Fear of loss.

Fear of rejection.

Fear of abandonment.

Fear of not being loved, or not being good enough to be loved.

And lots of women let these fears take over and run the show as their emotions get the best of them.

Of course, I get that it can be a frightening idea that all it takes is just a few wrong words or actions and "Wham!"... the man in your life who you've been sharing so much of yourself with is suddenly not feeling it for you anymore.

But here's the thing:

The fact that a man's feelings can change so quickly has TWO SIDES to it.

See, if a man's feelings can quickly change from feeling interested and attracted to a woman, to feeling that "Ewwwww" feeling where he wants to get away from her...

It's also true that a man can quickly change from feeling UNATTRACTED and uninterested ... to feeling intensely ATTRACTED and wanting to spend time with you again.

In other words, men's feelings and their reactions and responses to a woman can change quickly in EITHER DIRECTION - from good to bad, or from bad to good.

Of course, I'm not just telling you this because it sounds like it makes sense.

The point is, you can either let the fact that a man's feelings can change as a result of your behavior SCARE you and make you ANXIOUS and INSECURE (which will only make things
worse for you)

Or...

You can see that the fact that his feelings can quickly change, can work to your advantage... and you can use this fact to have a man very quickly go from NOT FEELING IT for you... to feeling that gut-level ATTRACTION for you in a few short moments and interactions.

I've literally seen men go from feeling like they had to get away from a woman they were dating and telling all their friends that it was over...

To suddenly remembering why it was that he was interested and attracted to her in the first place, and then start calling, making plans, and thinking about her all the time.

Finding out what the PROBLEM is is just half the answer that teaches you about what it is that you need to STOP DOING.

STOP TALKING to the man in your life about the mistakes you've made... or about what's happening in your relationship.

And stop it RIGHT NOW!

Point being, when a woman shows up and acts overly emotional, upset, insecure... and does things that are UNATTRACTIVE to a man, it's bad enough.

But then when a woman sees the damage that her behavior has done to her relationship with a man... and she starts to FEEL BAD about that too... things quickly go from bad to worse.

Each time she calls a man and he hears her voice, he instantly knows she's still in that place of fear, worry, and emotional uncertainty.

And this will keep pushing the man further and further away.

The answer isn't to try and talk through all your uncertain feelings with a man - if you're goal is to connect with him and keep building his interest and attraction for you.

The answer is to do the things that create attraction in HIM.

Translation - stop talking and thinking about the PROBLEMS you're feeling between you... and start being the woman a man naturally feels excited and joyful with when he's around.

THEN, when you're in a close and connected place, talking to a man and getting him to share and understand - and even initiate conversations about your feelings and your relationship - will be easier than you ever thought possible.

So stop doing the things that you're learning PUSH MEN AWAY... and START doing the things that tons of other women have learned naturally build more interest and ATTRACTION inside a man.

Some women spend their entire lives doing all the WRONG THINGS with the RIGHT MEN in their relationships... only to finally figure out too late all the things they were doing pretty much guaranteed that a man would stop feeling attraction for them as time went on.

And some women, even after they've "done the work" and gotten rid of all the negative patterns in their life that kept them from drawing a man to them for lasting love, still can't clue into the 'hard-to-identify' but simple things that make a man keep "feeling it" for them.

And by the way, if you're making serious mistakes with a man such as:

-Trying to convince him to like you, want you, or to stay with you... and completely losing your composure when you see any sign of him losing interest in you

-Calling him too much and trying to be the one to make plans and make sure that you spend time together and see each other

-Becoming upset with him when he doesn't call, then not knowing how to get your feelings out
and communicate with him without creating an even worse situation for yourself

Then here's the thing...

You've probably been doing these kinds of things for a while in your life...

It's that on a deeper emotional level, YOU don't have some critical parts of your own life "handled" or together... and it's showing up in your relationship and pushing him away.

Don't let what you aren't aware of about yourself (but could quickly get handled) keep you from the love and the relationship you want.

If you find yourself losing your composure too often, letting your emotions take over and
regretting it too often after the fact, and you're starting to recognize that not all of what you're doing and choosing to do with a man is totally CONSCIOUS... then you need to take the time and the steps to take care of what's going on INSIDE YOU first.

Once you take care of what's happening inside you on an emotional, spiritual, and psychological level... a lot of the things on your outside that a man sees and experiences will start to take care of themselves.

And you'll start to magnetically ATTRACT a man and create the right situations and the right relationship from the inside out.