:: Avoid Making This Mistake When He's Distant ::

have you ever just sensed that something was off with your man, but you didn't know what?

Of course... he wouldn't talk to you about it or tell you. He was just quiet and withdrawn.

Trying to figure out what your man is thinking can be a dangerous game.

Not only does trying to figure him out often end up pushing your man away on accident, it usually drives you a little nuts.

Which only makes things worse.

Stop wondering and worrying when you don't have to anymore. It's time you got to the heart of the matter and stopped going in circles with men and relationships.

>>>> Example :-

Ms She have been having a long distance relationship with a man with whom the chemistry and the connection was amazing from the start. They have been seeing each other for almost 4 months now. They fell in love and he has confessed it so to her. He also has mentioned to her that he feels Ms She is his soul mate.

He travels around the world working for an oil company and during his last trip which has taken a month things are changing. He does not call Ms She as often, does not write emails to her as often and blames it on the time difference and mood differences and being stressed and busy. All started to get worse when in her frustrations She started feeling anxiety and reacting by also not calling him as often and being cold and distant.

Before She started acting this way She did ask why he was not calling and communicated that expectation with him. She think he is pulling away and so not
know what to do. She is in love with him and do not know if She should bother him by calling or She should just stand back and wait for him to make his move
when ready. He was very attentive and used to call a lot more before even when he was traveling.

Did She act needy? Is there hope? What should She do?

>>>>So, Here goes the Response

It is possible for a man to sense what you're calling "needy" without you even saying anything.

And...

It's possible that even though your normal feelings of wondering what's going on aren't wrong or needy in an unhealthy way... your man might FEEL like you're being too needy.

The result - he's not showing you the same level of interest and attraction not because you did something wrong, but because of how he is FEELING.

So what's the difference between what is actually needy, and what a man thinks is needy and unattractive?

It's the way you communicate how you're feeling to him. You might even think of this as the "energy" that you're bringing to him and your relationship.

SO STOP WHAT YOU'RE DOING RIGHT NOW !!!

Stop your mind, stop your busy thoughts, and stop trying to "figure everything out."

You're on the brink of becoming your own worst enemy here.

Why?

Because you've got a growing case of what so call the "over-analyzing blues."

This is when you know there's something going on with your man that you don't get.

And since you don't know what it is, and you're feeling a bit uncertain about things, something bad starts to happen -

Your mind starts to fill in the blanks of each little thing he does and says with some kind of negative or fearful thought (even if there's nothing really wrong).

And this creates a negative feedback loop where-

The more you feel uncertain and unnerved by not knowing what's going on...

The more things feel weird between you...

And thus the worse you feel...

And then the more negative stuff about him and his actions you think and worry about...

And so the more he acts strangely or more distant around you.

The cycle feeds itself and down and down you go.

STOP THE MADNESS!

clear your mind of all your thoughts about him.

He's likely not going to stand there with open arms waiting to hear and understand how you feel, and explain himself.

Men get that magic "she's the one" feeling not when they feel like they have to dig into the little things to make your relationship work but when it feels EASY.

That's why it's time you stopped wondering what in the world is going on with men, and stopped feeling stuck or frustrated as the same "issues" keep coming up with them.

P/S - he is lucky to have met you....